Tuesday, December 27, 2011


some days there are too many feelings of loss.
I still cry over my sweet Frankie pug who died so suddenly a few weeks ago. I think his death also conjures up the many feelings of loss over the last few years..everything from my Dad dying to graduating from the warm safe haven of the University, to my artist friend having to move away from across the hall from my studio, to the news my oldest son plans to move to California in the spring.
Not to take away from the loss of Sweet Frankie..he had taken my heart the day we rescued him from the Pug rescue.
Maybe the cloudy day and the cold doesn't help..or the fact that our very old sick cat went out a few weeks ago and never returned.
Sometimes life is just one loss after another...still we go on because we must.
So bear with me as I shed tears for my Frankie Pug, my Dad, and all the many who have passed this way and touched my life. Didn't want to be sad today but here it is.


  1. Il y a des jours ainsi... Nous avons tous des chagrins à purger.
    Il est bon d'en parler pour se sentir un petit peu soulager...
    Je vous fais de gros bisous et je vous renouvelle mes voeux, afin que tout soit possible, y compris le bonheur...

  2. Sometimes all of that sadness overwhelms us on a particular day and it hurts extra. It's okay to feel that way for a while. Not too long, just momentarily and for a day or so maybe. It's to let the grief out and there's nothing wrong with that. It can be very healing providing you don't get stuck in it. XOX

  3. Kay-I'm so sorry. It's hard to get through the grief, but it's the only way to get to the other side, and it's okay to bring out your sadness and feel it.
    You'll be in my thoughts...